In its large team of therapists, ReseauPsy includes sexologists. Although the name of this profession highlights the expertise in sexuality of these professionals, the practice of sexologists is not limited to what happens in the bedroom! In this short article, we invite you to discover the field of practice of sexology.
What is a sexologist?
According to the Professional Order of Sexologists of Quebec, sexologists are professionals in “the improvement, maintenance and restoration of sexual health”. This definition implies that the practice of sexologists extends well beyond sex itself; Indeed, sexual health is vast! It impacts several areas of a person’s life, both physically and psychologically. An individual’s sexuality can have a significant influence on their interpersonal relationships, self-confidence, well-being, and even their identity.
The title of sexologist as well as the practice associated with it are regulated by the Quebec Professional Code. You must at least hold a bachelor’s degree in sexology to be a sexologist, but many also complete a master’s degree in the field to specialize their practice or obtain the right to practice psychotherapy (see this article on the ReseauPsy blog to find out more about psychotherapy!).
Here are a few quick reasons why you might need to consult a sexologist.
1. I experience attachment difficulties in my interpersonal relationships (romantic and others).
In their practice, sexologists do not only address what happens in the bedroom! They are also specialists in attachment issues and the relational dynamics of daily life.
2. My partner and I need advice to learn how to better communicate our emotional and sexual needs.
Some sexologists offer couples consultations. Indeed, it can be difficult to address your sexual and emotional needs to your partner adequately; sexologists therefore play a mediation role to ensure that the exchanges are constructive and beneficial for all parties. Sexologists make sure to create a safe environment without taboos, conducive to healthy exchanges.
3. I have questions about my sexual orientation and/or gender identity, and I need to talk to a professional about it.
Sexologists are able to support individuals from the LGBTQ+ community and people from gender diversity. They can also get involved in the evaluation process for gender affirmation treatments for trans people.
4. I have difficulty feeling satisfied in my sexual relationships.
Difficulties related to achieving orgasm can be addressed by sexologists. The same goes for issues related to lack or reduced desire, as well as sexual pleasure in general.
5. I show signs of sexual dysfunction and/or often experience pain during sexual acts.
Many difficulties that appear physical in appearance may actually have psychological causes. This includes erectile dysfunction, ejaculation problems, lubrication disorders or pain related to sexual intercourse. Sexologists can address these issues in their practice.
6. I have experienced traumatic events in a sexual context and would like to reclaim my sexuality.
Some sexologists specialize in intervention with people who are victims (or guilty) of sexual assault or sexual and domestic violence.
7. I show signs of emotional and/or sexual dependence.
Sexologists can work with people struggling with maladaptive emotional and/or sexual patterns by helping them develop healthier behaviors.
8. I need tools to maintain a healthy sex life at different stages of my life (parenthood, separation, menopause, etc.).
Life transitions can cause many upheavals, including in a person’s sexuality. Sexologists are there to support individuals at all stages of their lives in order to
help maintain or restore a healthy and fulfilling sex life.
Interested in consulting in sexology?
In short, the field of practice of sexologists is much broader than we think! Do not hesitate to turn to a sexologist if you are experiencing relational or emotional difficulties, or physical, behavioral or cognitive issues related to your sexuality.
Fill out our consultation request form to obtain a quick sexology appointment, whether for couple or individual consultations, or contact us for any questions.
Sources
Professional order of sexologists of Quebec (n.a.). Portrait of the sexologist profession in Quebec. https://www.opsq.org/fr/les-sexologues
Professional order of sexologists of Quebec (n.a.). Why consult a sexologist? https://www.opsq.org/fr/quand-et-pourquoi-consulter